One of the primary contributions by New World Allstar was to uncover the “cheat codes” for twin flames. On the internet, all day long in twin flame chat rooms and forums you begin to see a narrative emerge: you meet your twin flame, it’s wonderful for a short time and then they run away and you go into a tailspin called “dark night of the soul.” When this happens, you are “in separation” and then you have to do—something—to get your twin flame to return. When they finally return for good, this is the “union.”
BOOM. Twin flames explained in less than a minute.
Indeed, everyone who thinks they met their twin flame enters the online twin flame world and joins in the conversation. People quickly figure out the conversation and start repeating the words and concepts that everyone else is using: 1. there’s a “separation,” 2. then you have to DO—something—healing, detaching, “finding yourself,” or whatever 3. and then you and your twin flame can “get into union.” It can be explained in three easy steps…it’s that simple!
But then, all of those same people who enter “twin flame world” on the internet find themselves struggling to figure out what exactly the most important “step” is: what do I need to DO to get into “union?”
So, everyone jumps into this conversation where the conversation itself revolves around a clear concept: here are the “steps” and “stages” to accomplish the goal of union.
But the one thing no one seems to ever ask is: “why we are these the steps and words in the first place?” Is it true, that THESE are the steps, and by the way, WHY are we talking like this? Why do we say “separation,” “union” and “detaching?” WHY is it that THIS is how it all seems to “work” to get your twin flame to come back? And here’s another REALLY good question: IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE REPEATING THIS STUFF WHO IS ACTUALLY WITH THEIR TWIN FLAME???
Have you ever stopped and asked yourself these questions?
Most do not. Most people on this “journey” jump in and just start repeating the stuff they see other people repeating. And so do the “online gurus” who claim to be “experts.”
Indeed, there are couples on YouTube who claim to be “twin flames,” but then when you listen to them explain their experiences, their experiences aren’t even close to what YOU went through. The “twin flame” couples on YouTube—who are very much in love—never experienced the insanity of the dark night of the soul. They never had repeating number patterns following them everywhere incessantly. Every 10 minutes you’re seeing 1111, 222, 444, 144, 4343, 2424, 1111 again, 333, 111, 2828, 1111 yet again, 144 on and on and on all day for weeks or months! It’s like the numbers are stalking you! You also can’t tell this to anyone because they will think you’re nuts! Meanwhile, the “twin flame couple” on YouTube who love each other very much and have “good communication skills,” still never mention any of this stuff. They just keep beating the drum of “true love,” “healing” and “sharing.” What they have is picture perfect.
And they SAY that they are “twin flames.”
Are they?
One day, you start feeling the strangest sensations in your body. You feel this pulling and tingling. It’s as though you are being pulled up into the sky! It’s like anti-gravity or something and it jerks you around and your body is pushed around by it uncontrollably. If you think you met your twin flame and you haven’t had this happen yet, just bookmark this article. You will. If it’s REALLY your twin flame…you will. This is called kundalini, and it's very real. Go back and re-read this paragraph. I want you to know I’m serious about this. It’s fucking weird. It is also just metaphysical.
The “twin flame couples” on YouTube never mentioned this kundalini. They never said a word about it! Yet, they claim to be “twin flames.” What the heck is going on, here?!
At some point you also start to notice that you are becoming increasingly psychic. You “know things” and you can’t explain how you know them. Every time you are shown information about the future, it eventually happens! How can this be happening?! “This only happens in stories…” but it’s happening to me!!!
Meanwhile, in the twin flame chat rooms and Facebook groups, they’re still beating the drum of “healing” and “stages.” The same people have been at that stuff for MONTHS or YEARS and they make NO progress. And their twin flame is STILL not talking to them. You understand that you are in the “separation stage,” but we still haven’t figured out why everyone is saying that. Why not just say “we broke up” or “they ghosted me” or “we’re not together” like every other person on earth? WHY is everybody who met their twin flame talking like that? Same with “union.” Why not just say “we’re together?”
Don’t you think that’s kinda weird? Think about it. NO ONE on earth uses these specific terms, every time to describe their “relationship status.” Twin flames do.
Why? Did you ever ask why??
Okay. So, why IS everyone saying that?
The terms “separation,” “union” and “detaching” (used in a spiritual context) have been in use long before New World Allstar came around, and definitely long before the online twin flame fad culture surfaced online in the 20-teens. These terms have been in use (in a spiritual context) since at least the early 20th century, and likely were first used in the 1700’s. Just as likely: long before even that. They were popularized in Western culture starting in the 1930’s and took off especially in the 1960’s. Ram Dass (cir. 1960’s) is well known for describing the ego/mind as “separation.” It is extremely important to understand HOW these terms have always been used in spiritual circles. We humans are often described as “body-mind-soul.” The body and the mind are “separate” from the rest of the universe. The SOUL is UNIFIED with the UNIVERSE. UNI-fied with the UNI-verse. That’s UNI-on. YOU AND YOUR TWIN FLAME ARE ONE BEYOND THE MIND.
The mind is separation.
The Soul is Union. It is One with All.
To “detach” is to Remember your True Nature as One with All. You were never separate to begin with. You were never “attached” in the first place. “You” just believe yourself to be a mental caricature, a “person.” But that’s not Who You Really Are.
Who You Really Are is beyond concept and emotion. The Soul is not concept, thought or emotion. You and your twin flame are the same Soul. This is a very esoteric teaching and it should be. There is not amount of “healing” the mind that will ever help you to Remember Yourself beyond the mind.
Someone at some point in the 20th century (BEFORE the internet) realized that the twin flame experience is no different than traditional zen spiritualism. REAL spiritualism…not the pop culture woo-woo junk information on YouTube. Genuine spiritualism reminds you that you ARE all things. The mind is the illusion of “separateness.” The mind can only perceive “me” and “you.” It can never realize that you are One with All. The Soul is UNI-ty (UNI-on). Therefore, YOU ARE YOUR TWIN FLAME.
Thanks to the internet, the original True Twin Flame Teachings (the teaching that this “twin flame journey is actually just Genuine Spiritualism) have been drown out by the pop-culture hysteria telling you that your twin flame relationship is a “perfect bond” which is no different than soulmates. Thanks to the internet, we now have an endless supply of people in a conventional relationship claiming to be “twin flames” on YouTube who confuse you because their experience is NOT your experience. They are NOT twin flames.
Their experience is drastically different than yours, but they call themselves “twin flames,” so they must be, right?
They SAY they are. Are they?
The twin flame community on the internet is only there to grift and make money off of you. Maybe from now on, if you’re going to spend money on twin flame coaching, you will at least be able to tell who is really a twin flame.
